Parenting can be confusing. When doubts and insecurities arise, let go. Trust yourself, return to your core and only give way to love.
Do not disturb. Allow your children to unfold. Learn to trust your children’s process, your confidence in them will build confidence in themselves.
Your children are not you. Let them be and let them go.
Remember, a human being is greater than a human doing. Often less is more. Slow down, breath and simplify your life. The best mothering looks like no mothering.
Don’t worry about gadgets, devices for stimulation, toys etc. Return to the real. Connect heart to heart with your child. Enjoy the simplicity. Countless toys only place objects between you and your child and robs him of the most important stimulation – your company. Give your child yourself and the need for things is minimal.
What is right for each child may not be right for all children. Avoid comparing.
There is no greater pain than feeling you are not enough. Your child is enough, right now, just the way he is. And so are you. Feeling guilty helps no one and changes nothing.
All you need to know is within you. Be open and let your child’s spirit show you how.
There is no good or bad child. There is only this child. Your baby does not judge you. Learn from this.
The only approval you need is your own. There is nothing helpful in comparisons.
Spend time with your children NOW. Don’t put it off for a single moment as you can’t go back later. Time is the most precious gift of all.
Your baby is loved every minute of every hour. All day and all night. Every season and every year. Love is enough.
